Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year, Midland, Texas!!

Well, it's that time again!

2011 is upon us, and that means that 2010 is officially over with. Hope it was good for you! It was a busy one for me. The kids are growing way fast, work has been busy and growing as well. And if oil keeps going the way it appears, Midland is heading into another boom!

Booms can be good and bad. The good is a bustling economy, lots of new faces and friends, everyone that wants to make a living will be, and the city will grow and prosper and become more of a great town.

The downside of a boom is things can often happen too fast. People show up and find searching for a place to live is harder than expected. Yes, many will be getting a bigger paycheck, but sometimes in a boom the cost of living goes up as well. Gas prices being tops on that list.

Things to remember if you live in Midland in 2011:

1) Drive safe. The local paper made it one of their major stories about how many accidents there were, how many people were hurt, etc. Think before you drive. Always look both ways, and you might even consider doing that several times! Always assume the other guy can't see you, and keep your guard up.

2) Help out your neighbor! One thing I've always enjoyed reading about was how people came to Midland and found it to be one of the best, most pleasant places they've ever been. People here hold doors for each other. We like to smile and say "Howdy" or "Hi" whether you know the person or not. Drivers will nod or wave to each other as they pass on the highway. Courtesy is a good thing!

3) We live in a desert. "Huh?" you may be saying to yourself. Well, I just thought I'd remind everyone, we do indeed live in a desert. Midland is not friendly to those of us who have allergies. Change your air filters in the house monthly, or more often. Use the better 3M filters when you can. Check the house out: caulk window and doors, replace weatherstripping when/where you can, keep your yard up so the grass will keep the dirt and dust down. And in general, brace yourself for weather! West Texas is not the easiest of places, but then again, I've never seen prettier sunsets either. :)

4) Last but not least, be safe! Midland is a great place, but we still have the small percentage who will do the wild, crazy and stupid things no matter what. That can be said for anywhere. But minor precautions will keep you safe. AWARENESS of your enviornment will keep you safe. And in the end, you'll be better for it, and make this a better place as well!

So take care, everyone! Enjoy your family, they're the only one you got. Enjoy and respect your friends, they are a gift. Be thankful, hopeful, helpful, honest, and above all else... be True To Yourself. If you can't trust you, why should anyone else? And if you ARE true to yourself, it will show.

Welcome 2011! Let's get after it!!!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Respect, itself, is dying.

A slow and painful death occurred recently, http://www.npr.org/2010/12/10/131978052/famous-christian-landmark-tree-cut-down-in-u-k , when a landmark tree outside of London was vandalized and all of its limbs were cut from the body of the tree, and left to waste. Some may say,” It’s just a tree.” Others will pay no attention at all. Some will go seemingly too far and cry for the loss of a miracle that was yearly harvested for thistles to adorn the royal Christmas table in London, England.

What I morn is the respect such an entity is entitled to, and was so blatantly stolen away. Whether we are discussing the Christian aspect of the history of the tree, the idolatry of the Egyptian culture and the great Pyramids, the rock used for Muhammad’s ascension (Dome of the Rock), any of the thousands of Buddha’s throughout southeast Asia, all of these and more are icons, yes. But they deserve not necessarily worship, but most certainly Respect.

And why? Why should you, me, or anyone else show respect to “pagan” idols, farcical icons, faded and tattered images of the past?

“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Beauty, something else dying away and lacking in respect.

When a monk, priest, cleric, pastor, rabbi, see the writings of their faith, it is gibberish to some and priceless to them. Who are any of us to judge a rock, a tree, a stone, a parchment, and place a value on it above or below any other thing? Why am I so special that if my car gets damaged at the mall shopping for gifts, that mine is more important than you and your endeavors?

One thing, “tis the season to be jolly.” This is Christmas, a Christian holiday, hugely shared the world over as a magical time of peace, joy and goodwill… for many reasons. Chopping up trees, landmarks, icons, symbols, is hardly the way spread anything good, much less goodwill.

Two, be respectful and considerate of others. It is a good tenet to live by, and is generally expected from us of others. We would expect consideration, we should grant such consideration. It is worth the time and energy required of us, and rewarded over and over again.

Lastly, this is not about me. This is about us. My car was not vandalized, nor was I disrespected in any way. This is Me talking to everyone including Myself to remind us all, no matter how much that nattery old church in Kansas might be evil for protesting funerals, of all things, they will have to live with themselves for that and are not worthy of our attention: positive or negative. Yes, “terrorism” might exist in the world, but Muhammad down the street has done nothing to you. You may not believe in God or Christ, but that has never been any excuse to trample on the rights of those who do. I’ve seen enough demeaning of Christians lately, from the “learned Scholars of Higher Education.” I’ve had my fill. They can no sooner convince me of their beliefs than I can convince them of mine, why try?

But, we can all be Respectful of one another, quite easily.

So, in the “spirit” of Common Sense, I would ask of you Reflection. Ponder the concept of Respect: what it means? What it is? How it exists in your life? And is there enough? Not only respect FOR you, but also FROM you. And do others have respect for each other? It is a very telling thing, Respect. How it is given and taken can convey a wealth of information to those who will only open their eyes.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Have yourself... a very Merry Christmas!

Greetings, Friends!

Just popping in to wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Life has been busy, fun, crazy, exciting, worrisome, mind-boggling, and down-right... usual. ;) I'll give ya a quick update on things and then I'm off again for a bit. Hopefully, next year will be much better:

1) Norah is doing great! She just turned 2 this past November, and is a walking-talking baby. Always happy, never made, but will throw a fit if she doesn't get her way. It's pretty cute. But don't laugh... only makes her more mad. ;)

2) Aiden is doing great too! Growing like a weed, that child can consume a pound of bacon for breakfast, throw a football is pinpoint precision, taller than boys a year older than he, skinny as a rail, loves to play, has a great sense of humor, and boy... does he like to talk!

3) Life is good! Leslie and I have been busy, working hard, visiting family at every opportunity, wrestling kiddos, and working hard. Did I mention work? We've been working!

4) MIDLAND is changing! I know the economy nationwide is kinda in the dumps, but Midland has been keeping its mouth shut, building and moving and remodeling all over town. There are four brand-new subdivisions that I know of going up, not to mention previous ones that are expanding. We have had some rocky points (Blue Ridge Apartments) but they'll get sued and that'll be that. (*hint* next time... don't build something other than the plan passed by city council!)

So, here is wishing You and Yours a very Merry Christmas! Enjoy this time, your family, rest and relalx when you can, look up at the stars and smile once in a while. Take care. And talk to you again soon.

~ John